Hello dear readers,
I owe you all an apology for my absence over the past few months. The past quarter has been a whirlwind of significant life changes for me, including the sale of my family home out west, the transition of my parents into senior care, and the profound loss of my mother on July 19th. Each of these events has demanded a great deal of my attention and energy, and I am grateful for your patience during this time.
Grieving is a deeply personal journey, one that each of us navigates in our own way. For me, the process has involved reflecting on memories, sorting through emotions, and finding solace in small, comforting rituals. One such ritual that has brought me a sense of peace is the use of candles. It might seem simple, but lighting a candle has become a cherished practice, a gentle reminder of love and remembrance.
The Comfort of Candlelight
Candles have long been associated with spirituality, meditation, and remembrance. The soft, flickering light they cast creates a serene atmosphere, allowing us to pause and reflect. When we are dealing with loss, this simple act of lighting a candle can be incredibly soothing. It provides a moment of calm and a space to honor the memory of those we’ve lost.
I’ve found that candles can serve as both a tribute and a source of comfort. Each time I light a candle, it feels as though I am connecting with the essence of my mother, whose presence still lingers in my heart. The glow of the flame symbolizes enduring love and the warmth of cherished memories.
Customized Sympathy Candles
For those who are grieving, finding a personalized way to commemorate a loved one can be deeply meaningful. This is where customized sympathy candles can make a difference. Lost Villages offers a special service to create candles with personalized labels and scents, tailored to your specific needs. These candles are more than just a product; they are a tribute, a memorial that reflects the unique spirit of the person you’ve lost.
In the photo accompanying this post, you can see a candle I made in memoriam of my mother. She loved yellow roses so it made sense to make it a rose fragrance and coloured it yellow. She was born in Scotland so the name Scottish Rose was perfect and the label carries a special message that felt right for her family and friends. It has become a cherished part of my daily routine, offering a quiet moment of reflection and connection.
Finding Solace Through Ritual
Grief is a journey with no set timeline, and it’s important to find rituals that offer you comfort and peace. Candles can be a small yet powerful part of this process. They serve as a tangible expression of our emotions and help us create a space for healing.
As we navigate our own paths through loss, let us remember to be gentle with ourselves and seek out those small comforts that help us along the way. Whether it’s through lighting a candle, sharing a memory, or simply taking a moment to breathe, these practices can provide solace and strength.
Thank you for bearing with me through this period of transition and personal loss. I hope that by sharing my experiences, I can offer a small measure of comfort to those who may be walking a similar path.
With warmth and light,
Kathleen
